Abortion in Dasmariñas, Cavite: Patient still feeling depressed 4 months after (entry #88)

Dasmariñas, Cavite:

patient’s name: Debbie

LMP (last menstrual period): September 15, 2021

date of procedure: Oct 15-17, 2021

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Hello Sir Alex, I am sincerely sorry for reaching out this late. It’s been 4 months since I did the procedure. It only took 1 or 2 weeks for me to recover physically however it took me longer to recover mentally. Ngayon ko lang nakayanang isulat yung experience ko with project486.

 

It was October 10, 2021 when I confirmed that I was pregnant, part of me already knows na magppositive ako since ang weird ng na fefeel ko lately and before oct 10, i also took PT and may faint line ung results. So my bf tried to search for something that can help us because we both decided na hindi ituloy ung pregnancy because we are financially and emotionally incapable . He then found out about project 486. I read all of the testimonies here and I dont know if  I should say this but I kinda felt comfort  from all of the testimonies because i felt na  I  AM NOT ALONE.

 

So nung  October 10, dali dali akong nag email and I told sir alex about my situation. I remember na I was so scared and nervous because I thought I didn’t get a reply kasi 1 day na yung lumilipas so i decided to write another email and left my number, turns out nasa  SPAM  ko lang pala.

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Dear Sir Alex and Sir John

Good morning, this is day 2 of trying to reach you, im really sorry if I
keep bothering you. Hindi lang po talaga ako mapakali sa situation ko and I
am considering Project486 as my last resort. I kept panicking and checking
if nagreply na kayo or nabasa ung email ko because as I read all the
testimonials they all said na you replied to them within the day they tried
to reach you. I am in a really tight situation right now and i am not
trying to scam you or waste your time. kindly please help me i really need
advice from professionals like you. I am resending my email yesterday.

resend:

I’m Debbie and a college student. I’m at a loss for words since I myself
haven’t really grasped what’s been going on. I had previously taken four
pregnancy tests, twice on October 3rd, and the T line was faint. I
attempted to find out what that faint line meant, hoping it was an
evaporating line. until then, I waited for my period. I was already two
days late. This morning – October 11,2021; the first thing I did was take
the test; I was extremely hopeful for negative results due to the fact that
I was also experiencing monthly period symptoms such as cramps, breakouts,
mood swings, and headaches, but the Pt’s came back positive.

I’m considering to go through abortion because I am not financially ready
and emotionally prepared for this immense responsibility; I honestly don’t
have anyone to tell what I’ve been experiencing, but I believe this is the
best decision for both of us. My boyfriend discovered your website and
advised me to read it. I unexpectedly felt comforted, as if I weren’t
alone. We desperately ask your help. Kindly respond; you are our last hope.
please help us with our situation.

attached below are the tests I took Oct 3 and Oct 11

Please reach me, 092XXXXXXXXX

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Mabilis ang process ng lahat even the consultation with sir john.  October 14,  I received the package and kinabukasan na ako nag start. Walang naging problem nung 1st and 2nd day kasi sanay naman ako sa fasting.  And sir john is really helpful and kind lalo na pagnag-ooverthink ako, he was there to reassure me na everything’s doing fine.

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Then the 3rd and last day, where you have to pillow maneuver for 8 hrs, we booked a room kasi mas efficient/convenient.  We started the maneuver by 8 am, hindi naman naging problem for me yung maneuver pero ung pag  lunok ng miso without water ung pinakanahirapan ako. Sir John was really hands-on with me because he was checking me from time to time, reminding me to not move.

Malaking tulong din na kasama ko yung bf ko kasi siya ung nagaasikaso sa lahat lalo na sobrang lala nung cramps ko habang on going yung procedure. By 5:30 pm done na kami sa pillow maneuver and yung unang tayo ko sobrang nanghihina talaga ako na i cant feel my legs and nahilo bigla paningin ko.

I  cant eat pa agad after pero nag wait ako for a while para lumabas ung POC, hindi pa rin ako mapakali after the procedure kasi nag ooverthink ako kung may mali ba akong nagawa or may kulang sa steps or did I move too much, pero shortly after sending Sir Alex the photos of POC, Sir John messaged me that I am not pregnant na.

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embryo at 4 weeks aog

I really dont know what to feel non, hindi ko ma process ung buong nangyari. Then days have passed, sobrang tahimik ko and lagi akong natutulala out of nowhere, I cant focus with anything, bigla nalang iiyak. Until now hindi pa rin ako fully-healed about it pero I  needed to write about my experience baka sakaling maka move on ako

 

Regardless of what happened I  am really thankful for Project486 for giving me a chance. To Sir John, thank you so much po sa palaging pagreply sa mga sunod sunod na tanong ko. Thank you.

16 comments on “Abortion in Dasmariñas, Cavite: Patient still feeling depressed 4 months after (entry #88)

  1. Hi, Debbie. I can see myself in your story, same breadwinner din. Now I am in a same situation, and upon research nakita ko rin etong project 486.
    Just had call with Sir John and ang dami ko pong natutunan, not just about the procedure but also its effects and risks. Nakakatakot pero alam kong andyan yung professional support kaya nakakagaan ng loob kahit papano. Hoping na mstart ko rin agad para mawala na yung mga iniisip.

    1. I am browsing the net and found project486. At first i am hesitant to contact them because many are scammed by fake organizations but then reading thru all the stories of many women who needed help like me pushed me to try to send them my queries. I have sproken to Sir John and he is so helpful and knowledgeable with all the things you need to know about what is going to happen.

  2. I’m a past patient here in project486. I had twice abortion and only project 486 i could trust. when I had my first abortion it took me 1 week to move on with the help of my partner. I even thought at first that the procedure will be difficult but it’s not. sir alex and sir john really helped with the process and procedure and guiding me thru my 3days process and I thanked them for being reliable.

  3. I am not going to give my real name tsaka personal email po for now as
    I am still a bit scared and new to this whole thing. I am an 18 year
    old male, and my partner and I made love without contraceptives around
    October 19, we are still waiting for the results for the PT test.

    The sex was 100% with consent, and this choice for finding a place to
    abort it (if it comes out as positive), is also with both parties’
    approval. We are just too young and we believe that we are not ready.

    We also know about the legality of this whole thing and how it will
    affect our lives if this fails.

    We need medical advice regarding the chances of us conceiving a child

    It was around October 19 when we had unprotected sex, we were in heat
    and we were terrified

    We mostly did oral, and masturbation, but at one point we agreed to
    put it inside her vagina, but it lasted for only around 40 seconds,
    less than a minute.

    I do not think I pre-came inside, nor did I pre-came before I put It
    inside, and even if I did, she did an oral the entire time so she
    might have removed a bit the pre came.

    I came 10 minutes after the insertion, it was already outside by then
    since we only put it inside for 40 seconds or less to know what it
    feels like.

    In short:

    We had unprotected sex at October 19

    It was only inside for 40 seconds or less

    I never came inside

    I never “felt” that I precame inside (maybe I did as I couldn’t have known)

    She smokes a lot

    I drink from time to time

    And Both of us are very stressed from college, and this experience.

    When I came, I’ve never put it near her vagina, or even touched her
    vagina, or she touched her vagina with cum on our hands, as all of
    with went to her mouth, and some was wiped off with alcohol and tissue.

    What are the chances po that she will become pregnant from this?

    We will also contact you po once again when we get the result whether
    the results are positive or negative.

    We would then ask for a procedure if it is positive.

  4. Hi! I am actually a graduating student and I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago. I have been experiencing pregnancy symptoms to the point that I can’t even do things without feeling nauseous so we decided to take pregnancy test only to find out that I am pregnant. I was so stressed out because I still have to attend my classes while enduring the symptoms of pregnancy. Me and my partner already decided that if we got pregnant, we’ll not continue it because we are not financially and emotionally stable to raise our child. Also, the biggest factor is I only have one semester until I graduate in college. I kept asking my partner if where we can find a clinic to abort it. He told me to try emailing Project 486 since he saw it from a comment on a post here in google. I asked him if we can trust Project 486 but we decided to since we have to do it as soon as possible because of my school. Yesterday I had my consultation with Sir John and he is very knowledgeable about this so I know that we are in good hands. I felt comforted because I know that I can trust Project 486. We are going to start the procedure by this coming weekend and hoping for it be successful.

    1. Hi, Im browsing in internet at nakita ko itong project 486 na ito.
      Then bigla nalang pumasok sa utak ko na eto na siguto since ako ng
      natulong sa magulang at kapatid ko. Hopefully maging ok at maging 100%
      matapos yung problema ko ngayon. THANKYOU SA MGA NAKAUSAP KO. sa mga
      payo nila thankyou thankyou po.

  5. My boyfriend found about Project486 and immediately emailed them right after I took the first PT that turned out positive. I am so anxious for days so I asked my friends for help but none of them knew where to buy the right medication. Thankfully, Sir Alex replied and I already had my consultation with Sir John last night. I’ve felt so relieved than ever. We decided to do the 3 days process after Christmas and we’re hoping for it to be less painful and successful.

  6. Was browsing the Internet about get the abortion pill, and luckily saw project486.. went over the articles and comments kung totoo yung page..mukang totoo naman dahil sa dame ng testimonies at mga babaeng katulad ko na natulungan na so nagemail ako agad. Decided to end the pregnancy dahil my partner and I, weren’t ready emotionally and financially. Thank you project486 sa immediate response and assistance. Hoping for 100% success sa procedure.

    1. I decided to terminate my pregnancy after finding out about it. It sucks but it had to be done for me to be able to continue my schooling. As far as I can remember, I was the one who recommended project486 to my friends who had the same troubles. So when it was my turn, I knew where to find them.

      Last night, I had my consultation with Sir John. The process felt so light and so normal. I didn’t feel like I was judged for doing such a thing. I’m so grateful for their help and I hope those who think that there’s no other way out, there is — with the help of project486.

  7. Pregnancy scares do really take a toll on one’s mental health. Now that I have walked through this phase, to resort to abortion is easy to decide but hard to act upon yet considering my current status that I have a lot of dreams to achieve and I can’t afford to be pregnant and raise a child financially, physically, and emotionally my decision would still be firm to resort to it. I know it is never easy and it will make me think from time to time about my decisions regarding to this but this is the wisest decision I can make for my family, my supposed to be child, and myself. The hardest decision I made.

  8. Hi, I found out that I was pregnant 2 or 3 days ago and my boyfriend and I knew exactly what we needed to do. We’re young and are far from being emotionally and financially stable to house a baby. After searching and asking from different contacts, we stumbled upon project 486 and we both agreed to trust it. I have already finished consulting and we plan to do the process 4 days from now. Thank you project486 for making this possible and we hope for a successful procedure

  9. Before I found out about this page, I have already stressed my self out looking for legit group of people who can help me out online. Im an OFW who’s just got back on her feet after pandemic and being pregnant now is the least that I needed with my career. I almost settled for one who was asking for down-payment first as I was really desperate. My friends were skeptical and told me to try and find another one. Luckily I found project486 and all the testimonies are true to their words. From reaching out to them till consultation; very hands on and you can feel no judgement. Nakaka kaba pero knowing na there are people na naka gabay sayo while you’re doing the process takes away some of those worries. So if someone on the same situation like me stumble upon this page, please don’t hesitate to reach out to them.

  10. Like the other girls here, I have mixed emotions right now. It’s a significant decision that i’ve made for personal reasons, and even though I believe it’s the right choice for me, I can’t help but feel a bit anxious and unsure. But i’m hopeful that i’ll get through this with the professional help of Project 486.

  11. This is my first time getting pregnant and I know that I am not emotionally and financially capable of raising a child so me and my partner decided to terminate it. It was days ago since I’ve found out the I am pregnant. At first I took PT because I know that my period was delayed and the result came out negative so, it was a relief for me but then few days have passed and I’m still not getting my period so I decided to take PT again then it came out positive then I tried again twice just to make sure but it’s still positive. That’s the time I panicked and starts to balance decisions and consequences with my partner and we end up with the decision of terminating it. I’ve research a lot on where and how to do it then I found project486’s site. I read about other women’s testimonials so I decided to contact them and luckily, they replied immediately and the same day also Sir John was able to discuss every deatils I need to know with the procedure and medicines I need to take. Hopefully, I can get pass through this situation immediately because I am really scared and nervous.

  12. Hi, I saw myself as one of you, ang hirap maging panganay while working student.this aint the plan that we have my partner and I we arent capable on raising a child. Ayoko magsuffer sya because of my our fault.

  13. This is my first time doing this thing, it is heartbreaking but I need to push through since I am not mentally and physically stable as of now. and I know makaka relate ako sa ilan sa inyo and you can relate to mine as well. I have 2 kids and we are not ready for baby no.3 I am so worried the only thing that came up to my mind is to not continue my pregnancy right now I know to myself that we are capable to give the baby a good life but we are also considering that my body is not yet ready I dont want to sound selfish pero iniisip ko din ang magiging pag bubuntis ko kung akompa lang di na okay. Dito na ako nag start maghanap ng help then I saw Project 486 and I am hoping I will get through this with the guidance of their professionalism and no judgement. I appreciated all of the help.

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