more abortion stories from Dumaguete

A lot can happen in a year, and I honestly didn’t expect this to happen to me too—especially so close to the year ending, like life still had one last surprise waiting.

If you’re reading this and feeling confused, scared, or unsure of what to do, I want you to know you’re not alone. I was once in the same position—overthinking, doubting myself, and trying to make sense of everything. It’s overwhelming, and it can feel isolating.

For women who might be checking quietly, Project486 is legitimate and definitely not a scam. What helped me trust them was reading the stories and experiences of other women who had been in a similar situation. Seeing how genuine everything seemed gave me hope that this organization could support me too—and they truly did

The decision I made is something I will quietly carry for the rest of my life. You might be here for the same reason as me, or you might have other reasons for thinking about this. Only you can tell where you are and whether you are ready.

I want to be clear about one thing: I’m not sharing this to encourage anyone to make the same choice I did. This is not something to take lightly, and it’s not something anyone should feel pressured into. If you have doubts, if a part of you wants to keep that chance, then listen to that feeling. Think about it not just once, but hundreds or even thousands of times. Give yourself the space to really reflect. All I’m saying is that if you choose the other path, you can rely on Project 486.

Whatever you decide, make sure it’s a choice that comes from honesty with yourself—not fear, not pressure, and not urgency. Choose what you believe you can live with, heal from, and stand by in the long run. And most of all, be kind to yourself.

Padayon lang sa gihapon.