Abortion pill in Cavite: board exam review, finances, heartbreak– single mom desperately needs to do it this time (entry# 174)

Abortion Pills in Cavite

 

Hi, this was my patient code po: PRJCT486-040724C2

Sorry po if it took me this long before masulat yung experience ko sa inyo. Naghiwalay na kami ng partner ko for good and I’m currently reviewing for my board exam. Kaya feeling ko sobrang tama yung decision ko before na ituloy yung MA. 🥹

Short background about me:
2nd year college student palang ako nung nabuntis ako ng partner ko sa first kid namin. Nung una, ayoko talaga and nakasupport naman siya and kinontact niya yung project486, can’t remember bakit niya alam to. Pero dahil pandemic non, hirap sa communication namin and lahat mahirap so nag continue yung pregnancy. I’m glad na hindi ko tinuloy noon kasi sobrang happy ko sa anak ko ngayon. Marami kaming challenges sa relationship namin and also sa life ko. I had to stop my studies for a year. On and off din kami. This year, nagkabalikan kami for the third time, and ayun, I got pregnant. Lakas ng feeling ko non na buntis ako first weeks palang kahit di pa nagppreg-test. Siguro kasi naeexperience ko na before. And kasabay non na naiisip ko na iabort na agad yung POC habang maaga pa. Kasi graduating ako, reviewing for boards, and sobrang laking factor ng unstable relationship namin and yung financial capability namin to raise another kid. That’s why I decided to contact project486. Super responsive sila, especially si Doc John sa questions ko. And inupgrade din nila yung inavail kong package for free. Sobrang thankful talaga ako kay Doc.
Although decided na ako ituloy, I still cried the day before magstart yung procedure. I was thinking na bakit pag sa ibang tao, sobrang support ako dito, pero now na nangyare sakin, ang hirap and masakit din pala sa feeling. Still, winiweigh ko lahat and mas nanaig pa rin na dapat ituloy ko to. I’m just thankful na andito sila to help me.

Actual procedure:
Day 1 and Day 2 – parang normal days lang. Walang unusual feeling except sa morning sickness ko na sobrang lala. I just followed yung instructions ni Doc.
Day 3 – eto yung pinakamahirap because of the pillow maneuver. They explained everything naman, crystal clear, kaya I know na very important na ifollow yung instructions nila.
4pm – inserted the miso
7pm – started cramps felt a bit dizzy
8pm onwards – short and prolonged cramps
– tolerable except sa prolonged
– Around 8pm, before buccal and sublingual. May nag pop inside. Then after 30-45 minutes, may nag pop ulit but parang not as big as the first one
9-10pm – cramps were painful 10/10, but i didn’t request for a pain reliever kasi keri ko naman. I think same yung feeling yung contraction dito nung nanganak ako the first time.
10pm onwards – vomit and i think kasama don yung natunaw na miso from the sublingual intake. Nabawasan din yung sakit ng cramps after. But still, naka pillow maneuver pa rin kahit feeling ko daming lumabas from my V because of vomiting
11pm – swallowed all the pills but yung cramps tolerable na.
12 mn – checked the diaper, blood and blood clots lang meron
– umihi ako sa container then don na may lumabas na parang kasing laki ng orange then may maliit na kasama na kasing size ng small tomato. Naisip ko non eto yung first na big pop and yung second na smaller pop. Shocked kasi parang ang laki and di ko mafigure out yung form niya. Then Doc instructed me na ipeel yung blood clot and maexpose lang yung pinaka tissue. May mga questions din si Doc sakin to confirm everything, and after a few hours, Doc said na I’m officially NOT pregnant.

After the MA:
May post-care instructions si Doc and sinunod ko lang yon. And may mga reminders din siya na I truly appreciate.
Magaan agad feeling ko pag gising ko nung morning. Not totally wala ng morning sickness, pero nabawasan siya, and nawala na rin yung “feeling pregnant” as the day goes by.
May blood pa rin na lumalabas sakin and I think nag last yun ng 2 weeks, more or less.
Hindi na ako nakapag PT ulit to confirm pero bumalik na yung period ko the next month.

Ang daming nangyare sa life ko and sa RS namin after nung MA, and that made me felt like “tama yung decision ko.” But, this serves a lesson for me that I will carry throughout my life. Thank you, project486. 🤍

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