This is a really long post, so if you have the time to read, might as well read. because at first I didn’t thought I needed this… but It really did helped me… Thank you Project486. Pasensya talaga kasi na tagalan pag send ng story namin… I am still in shocked and trying to forget our trauma.. please censor our name Doc…

Hi this is AJ, I am the boyfriend and this is my POV of our story. My partner and I are graduating student, I live in Mindanao, particularly in CDO, she lives in Ozamis City, both of us are taking our internship. So if nalilito kayo because of Tagalog and Bisaya, I’ll just do both, kayo na bahala umintindi or mag translate, just to assure some of other readers na bumabasa nito.

We were just casually taking and spending our time like every other couples when it comes to missing each other. It was May 20th at that time when she decided to come home to CDO para maki pag kita siya sakin cause she had 6 days off at that time. So I also made time to make free sched for her. Prior to that, nag usap na kami na gusto namin ma experience ng ”Creampie” or ejaculate inside kasi I already experienced it with my previous partners, and so far wala naman talagang nangya-yari. Yun na nga May 26th, While she was on her way to come home, I decided to buy Trust Pills (Plan B pills Ethinylestradiol + Levonorgesterl + Ferrous Fumarate) cause yun naman talaga ginagawa ko. Little did I know that during that time it was her ovulation period and kahit ganun paman we still did that. I had all the precautionary measures. We did all the sex and everything from May 26th to May 30th, kay abi nako safe sya from all the precautionaries nga nabuhat namo.

Pag sulod sa June, nag start na dayun syag sugod sa iyahang symptoms anang mga pregnancy scare, at first gina balewala ra nako ang mga inana, kay akong ex before ga inana sad, ga pills sad siya adto, so ako kumpyansa rapud kaayo. ga sige rag sukaha akong partner by the 2nd and 3rd week of June, pero ga ingon ko sa iyaha nga maybe side effects ra to sa Plan B pills.

Here comes July, where I told her na to take Pregnancy test na just to make sure, even though hesitant ko kay kulbaan lage. This was the day that me my world crumble… When she told me na she took PT, and it was POSITIVE… at first I really didn’t believe gyud kay maybe she was kidding all along, not until she sent a picture of 2 positive urine Beta HCG.

Wala gyud ko nag expect adto, kay for the longest time and all these time nga ga prevent ko ato kay nahitabo/na happen jud.
I was shocked and caught off guard… I didn’t know what to react.. Ang naa rajud sa akong mind ato nga time kay ”Why??” ”How did it happen, when I had all the preventive measures, Plan B (based on experienced) ”

She told me she was pregnant, and wala gyud koy lain ma ingon ato nga time… I was choked on my own words and thoughts.
then pumasok sa utak ko na we weren’t really ready for this.. kasi yun nga I thought I was prepared for back ups, based on experienced na I already ejaculated on my previous partners before… I almost blamed her maybe she did it with others, or she did it on purpose not to take the pills… pero wala na nako gi padayun og overthink kay at the end of the day, akoa man japun tong sala..

So I did all the pep talk sa akong partner nga dili pajud mi ready and everything, she also told me nga daghan kaayo ma disappoint kay she is the only daughter and gina expect pud nga mu lambo sa ilahang family. So I did all the research and everything nga maka kita sa among answer, I told her na I will find a way ani among situation, so we decided not to continue this pregnancy…

At first I had no idea what to do and what to search… I was dumbfounded… I looked and searched for possible solutions (medical abortions) on social media, mapa Facebook, Twitter, Tiktok but all I found were possible scams. I even asked ChatGPT about this situation, it helped me what to do and ask.. So I found Women on Web, they were legit. I read all infos and ilahang mga instructions, so I ordered, but the main concern kay dugay (matagal) ang ilahang time of delivery… So I had to make back up plans in case dili pa muabot ang Women on Web.

while searching, I looked upon Project486 on some random searches, then didto na nako nakita ang mga stories sa other Filipina women. At first I was really hesitant kay it was very random for me. Until such time nag email ko to contact them… wala pang 1 day nag reply sila.
They introduced me to my consultant which was Doctor JJ. they were really organized when it comes to information and talagang nag a-ask talaga sila when was the ”last day of Menstruation” ”First day of unprotected sex” so mahibal.an jud nimo nga legit jud sila. Plus when it comes to the day when you do the procedure, they will really tell you what to prepare and what do expect during the procedure which was very helpul and maka pa kalma…

Even though I was hesitant because of the unorthodox na method nila ng pag ask of proof kasi nga may coin and code, I had to make sure na it was not scam, I had to ask question from other sources and especially chatGPT, but now I understood na maybe it was their way of saying na it was real time and proof of the transaction.

So ayun na nga, I even asked to talk to Doc JJ thru phone call for proper instructions, and what made me convinced to trust them is that they do really care about every patient who wants to contact them and were very informative and very organized when it comes to educated PEOPLE especially WOMEN who really needed their help… not to mention what caught me the most… They really do care about when it comes to your decision.. They will really tell you na ”the ball is in your hands” ”Even if you have the slightest reason not to terminate the pregnancy, ipag patuloy nyo na lang to full term.” They will not force you to continue the abortion procedure because they want to sell the product like other scammers lalo na sa FB and other soc meds…

So mao nato I was really eager to save up money and order sa ilaha. The waiting game was the most crucial part kay mao lage I was from Mindanao, it took more than a week (not Project486 fault though, courier had some isolated logistical issues; Mindanao packages usually arrive after 3 days on average – site admin Alex) para muabot ang package and that time she was almost 7 weeks pregnant, so I had to make sure to be with my partner as soon as possible… Doc JJ gave me all the instructions as needed, he was there all the time, he made sure to give updates and all the instructions needed before and during the procedure.

Day 1 and Day 2, I made sure to follow doc JJ’s instructions. Day 3 was the most crucial part kay dili jud pwede mu suka (ma duwal) kay mawala ang effectivity sa medicine once masuka ang tambal. I was very patient to me and my partner. Doc JJ told me that vaginal insertion ang pinaka importante cause that was the assurance if in case masuka niya ang medicine naa ra japun ang absorbance, and I was also convinced then na it really was our way to make sure the procedure will be effective, so we did follow each and every instructions with 2 vaginal insertions, with 2 buccal for 3 hours ( it may depend based on your Day 1 and Day 2). You just really have to trust them gyud.

at 4pm we did the vaginal insertion of 2 misoprostol, next with 7pm buccal 2 misprostol.. I had to be prepared, so gipa inom nako siya og pain reliever just to make sure na dili ra kaayo sya sakitan. But still maka feel japun siya og pain from the cramps. We had to endure the pain and the long hours of agony till 12am. Until Doc JJ told us it was time to check the diapers, although she had bleeding, nag worry ko kay dili kaayo inana ka daghan ang bleeding, plus walay signs of POC pa, not until i told her to take a squat kay maybe mu gawas ra tanan ang clots and POC, and it did…

I saw all the heavy bleeding, the clots and the POC nigawas sa diaper… I was the one who all saw it… I had to remove it immediately para dili makita sa akong partner… I knew all along nga mao najud ni… The moment it came out, wala ko kabalo unsay iingon… I had to cover it from the diapers. I was shocked.. I didn’t know what to say.. I was very emotional kay I saw how big the POC was. It was the form of a very little fetus… It already had arms and a form of a head… As much as I wanted to say na it was finally all over and Doc JJ told us na she was offically NOT pregnanct, na shocked japun ko. cause it already formed into a small little being… my own blood, and my own baby… bisag wala nako gi plano.. pero na kurat ko.. cause wala jud ko nag expect nga muabot sa inani… I cried with all my heart and my eyes out.. knowing akoa tong binuhatan and sala… It really did scarred me for life… He/She didn’t deserve it… but we had our reasons… It is very hard ani nga situation. She was the only daughter and daghan ga expect sa iyaha and didn’t want ma disappoint… I have my reasons too. Dili pajud mi mentally, emotionally and financially ready… We are never proud of what we have done… Hantud karun gapangurog japun ko og think unsa akong gi buhat… I am forever scarred and will carry this burden for life… Sorry kaayo, my little angel.. I know we failed gyud as a responsible human and parents. This will serve as a very big lesson. Please do not take this for granted and learn from this lesson… as much as I wanted not to encourage everyone from this decision (abortion), if by chance na ma basa nyo to, don’t take this lesson for granted… pero if your reasons will get the best of you, you can rely and trust Project486 to help you…

AJ, CDO. signing out…