I am the BF. I will be sharing my side of the story to give insight, especially to those guys who might be in similar situations like me. Katong mga lalaki diha, akong masulti first and foremost is mas maayo jud prevention (condom/protection) — it is 100 times out of 100 better than cure (abortion).

100% legit jud ni nga website/procedure diri.

It’s different when the situation becomes real — it tests your emotions, your values, and even the strength of your relationship.

From the start, one thing we appreciated was how clear and informative the doctor was. Ang aim jud sa doctor is to educate and really give us an idea of how everything works, what to expect emotionally, and how to prepare ourselves mentally. Dili siya magpasagad ug storya — klaro, direct, ug compassionate ang approach. That helped us feel less scared and more aware of the process, even if the situation itself was already heavy.

Another thing I want to emphasize is the importance of following the doctor’s guidance properly. We made sure to read everything carefully, follow every instruction responsibly, and prepare all the things we needed ahead of time. Preparation is really key. Having everything ready made the whole experience more manageable and reduced a lot of unnecessary stress.

Dapat strong jud inyong commitment kung mo-proceed mo ani. To the guys, be understanding jud kay grabe ka emotionally, financially, og mentally draining ni nga procedure. Your partner will rely on you a lot, so you have to be present, patient, and supportive. Ayaw mo’g pasagad; this isn’t something you can take lightly.

One month into the relationship, we got pregnant. Both of us are pro-choice, but when we found ourselves in the real scenario, we had doubts about our belief. It’s different when the situation becomes real — it tests your emotions, your values, and even the strength of your relationship.

I’m literally typing this hours after the procedure. I’m beside my GF who’s asleep at the moment. Seeing her resting peacefully now reminds me how important it was that we prepared, supported each other, and listened carefully to proper guidance. Even though it has been one of the hardest experiences we’ve faced, we got through it together.

Now we are in the recovery stage and grabe kaayo dili dayun ka pasagdan ni doc. Naa gihapon post recovery nga reminders and consultation.

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