I am a 3rd year college student in one of the universities in Cebu City. I have a boyfriend and he is still in college too. The moment we found out that I was pregnant, our world seemed to stop. Everything felt heavy and unreal, like time slowed down while our thoughts kept racing. Wami ka storya dayon, ga tutukay lang mi sa usag usa, napuno og kahadlok, kabalaka, og mga pangutana na dili mi andam tubagon.
As the days passed, we tried to understand everything together. We spent long nights talking, sometimes crying, sometimes just sitting quietly beside each other. We thought about our families, our dreams, and all the sacrifices our parents made just to send us to school. The fear of disappointing them stayed in our minds. Lisod kaayo i-handle ang among gibati, tungod napuno mi ug kahadlok ug kabalaka at the same time.
After many difficult conversations, we both decided that we cannot continue this pregnancy because we feel that we cannot fail our parents. It was not an easy decision. It came with pain, confusion, and a deep sense of loss that we are still trying to understand. Usahay maglibog gihapon mi if sakto ba among desisyon, pero we are trying to hold on to what we think is right for our situation.
Our friend recommended this service and we are grateful that we came to the right place to help us through this. Dako kaayo among pasalamat nga naa mi nakita nga pwede namo duolan. Dako sad kaayog pasalamat mi ani na service kay very hands on sila sa ila patient, and I can guarantee na trusted sila. Because we were hoping to find guidance, understanding, and a safe space where we can face this situation with clarity and care.
- We are doing our best to stay strong for each other, even if there are times when we both feel lost. Some days are heavier than others, and sometimes words are not enough to express what we feel. Padayon lang mi, one day at a time, bisan lisod, hoping that somehow we will find clarity, forgiveness, and the strength to move forward.