Project 486 ensured my safety and confidentiality throughout the process by providing discreet, clear, and compassionate guidance that respected my privacy and emotional state.

“As a third-year student and the only daughter in our family, I grew up under my mother’s watchful and strict care, especially when it came to relationships. Her fears that any distraction might derail my studies weighed heavily on me, and for years, I obeyed her rules without question. But during my second year of college, I quietly began a relationship, sneaking away during free weeks and short breaks to see my boyfriend, all while carrying a heavy burden of guilt for hiding the truth from my mother.

Then came the unexpected-intermittent abdominal pain, an acute sensitivity to smells-and the moment I feared most: a pregnancy test with two unmistakable lines. Overwhelmed by fear and uncertainty, I realized I was not ready for motherhood. I had dreams, ambitions, and a family who believed in me and expected so much. The emotional turmoil was crushing. I felt isolated, scared, and trapped by my circumstances as a student with limited finances, with a boyfriend who was equally unprepared. It was my fault, I know. I wasn’t careful enough. I relied on my PCOS and withdrawal method, foolishly believing it would be enough. But the consequences were devastating. The guilt gnaws at me still.

 

In my search for a way forward, I discovered Project 486. In a country where abortion is illegal and judgment runs deep, the thought of seeking help from a hospital filled me with dread. But Project 486 was different-it was a beacon of hope offering discreet, compassionate support. After reading about someone with a similar story, I reached out to Alex from Project 486, and though I was initially skeptical, I was soon connected with Dr. JJ.
Dr. JJ’s kindness and clarity were a lifeline. He guided me through every step with empathy and professionalism, making me feel safe and supported during one of the most vulnerable times in my life. The reassurance I received from him and the entire Project 486 team was invaluable-they treated me not just as a case, but as a person deserving of dignity and care.

I am deeply grateful to Project 486 and especially to Alex and Dr. JJ for their unwavering support. Their work gave me the strength to make the decision I needed without fear or shame. For someone like me-still finding my path and not ready for motherhood-their help was nothing short of a blessing. I hope their compassionate mission continues to reach and empower others facing similar struggles, offering them the same hope and relief I found.

Project 486 ensured my safety and confidentiality throughout the process by providing discreet, clear, and compassionate guidance that respected my privacy and emotional state. Given the illegality of abortion in the Philippines and the fear of judgment, Project 486 operated as a confidential platform where I could seek help without exposing my identity or personal details. Their team, especially Dr. JJ, communicated with me privately and gave step-by-step instructions to safely manage the process at home, which made me feel secure and supported.

Though specific legal frameworks like HIPAA do not apply in the Philippines, Project 486’s approach mirrored international standards of privacy and confidentiality by limiting information access strictly to those involved in my care and by ensuring all communications were handled sensitively and discreetly. This protected me from potential stigma or legal repercussions while prioritizing my well-being and autonomy. Their empathetic support and respect for my situation were crucial in helping me navigate a difficult decision safely and with dignity.”