This is my story.
As a mother this experience wasn’t new to me. I’m an ofw, a mother and a daughter, providing for my child and family and this is the reason why i can’t afford to have another child. I know this is so wrong and i’m aware that i’m not careful enough and this is all because of my negligence. I have a partner and were together, he wants the baby i want to keep it too but i have no choice, i need to go back abroad to work. On processing na ang pagbabalik ko sa abroad kaya hindi ko pweding ituloy ang pagbubuntis ko. This situation is not easy for me and for my partner but he understands, he supported me along the way, he didn’t leave my side.
I’m so thankful to my partner because i can feel that his love for me is genuine through ups and downs, we’ve been through so much. Na experience ko na din to dati with the same partner, pero hindi ko din tinuloy dahil wala akong choice. Masakit, lalo na pumapasok sa isip ko araw araw. Dapat tayong mga babae ay maging ma ingat dahil sayang ang buhay maraming mga ina at mag asawang gustong magkaroon ng anak pero hindi pinalad, we are very priviliged to have one but we chose to terminate it. I know this is a big sin and i will be held accountable for this. Kaya to all the women out there i hope na matuto tayo kung maari hindi na sana tayo umabot sa ganito. My partner and i are only using withdrawal method for years now pero hindi siya safe kaya kung makikipagtalik man tayo gawin nating safe dahil buhay ang masasayang, maging maingat at maging educated tayo pagdating sa sex dahil babae tayo. Pero alam kung hindi talaga ito maiiwasan kaya wag kayong magdalawang isip na kumunsulta at lumapit sa project486 dahil mapagkakatiwalaan sila, iga guide ka mula umpisa hanggang matapos, they will not leave you and they will guide you along the process and also Dr. John is very patient, ang kagandahan pa sa kanila is ma i’educate ka lahat ng detalye ipapa intindi nila sayo. Maraming salamat po project486 and Dr. John, you can really trust them.
I am currently on the stage of getting rid of myself. Being in this situation with no one to trust and to rely on. I spent endless hours looking for a way to get out of this situation since I am alone. Thinking I cannot raise a kid alone, and in secret. My parents trusted me to come here alone sa cebu to finish my studies and become a doctor until I met someone whom I thought to be my partner for life before I found out that he was already with his girlfriend of 6 years. I feel disgusted, mistreated and low value to be played out. I couldn’t just come to him and tell that I am pregnant since it will also create huge problem, but my decision is final until I found this page. I will definitely come to through this to keep my promise to my parents who are the only people on earth that will not leave me behind.
Hello, reading your experience even though I dont know you has given me courage to take this journey on together with my partner. He is very supporting. Our situation is also not easey since pareho kaming may mga anak sa labas. We only have eachother now for almost 7 years providing and working hard pra mka tapos ng pag aaral ang mga anak namin. We enjoyed the moments through ups and downs, I am working a a call center agent and my partner and nag tratrabaho pra sa yamaha. Our income is not that much but with determination we were able to strive. After I found out that I am pregnant which was not part of the plan kasi may control nman kami. At first hindi kami nag agree sa plano na ito. After careful consideration we both decide that its for the greater good and bad and pra sa future namin. I thought this was an inactive page until nag respond sila sa email ko. Dr. jj was very educational and everything I knew was very far from what Dr. jj imparted me making me confident that there is still a way to carry on.