2 months after husband’s vasectomy, I got pregnant

 

Ako si Lea, 29 from Province of Cebu, married with two kids.

One kid is enough jud para nako pero na pun-an tungod kay gusto sa ako bana. Sige na lang since pares na sila kay boy and girl. No regrets maskin pag sakit kaayu manganak. Sakit sa bulsa, sakit sad physically, emotionally and mentally.

I told my husband after nako manganak to have vasectomy kay dili na jud ko mu sugot ma buntis pa. Kung dato pa lang us, why not. Nindot ra maka kitas imong liwat.

Unfortunately, wala nagpa semen analysis ako husband after vasectomy operation . Kumpiyansa kaayu siya na OK na. We did it two months after vasectomy op. Kabalo jud ko na mabuntis ko if dili mag widthdrawal. It’s against my will jud but wala koy mabuhat kay lage infertile na jud daw siya.

So fast forward after 9 mos from giving birth, I’m pregnant again. Regular ra akong menstrual period so nabantayan ra gyud nako dayun nga buntis ko. Naabot na jud akong dakong fear.

Abortion was the only thing in my mind even before i confirmed my 3rd pregnancy. No matter what, i will not carry another human being. Lisud jud siya. Gusto nako mag focus mi sa savings kay lisud jud amoa financial situation right now. Aside from that, the pregnancy alone is exhausting. Dili nako e sugarcoat. Di lalim mag buntis.

Dali dayun ko nag search online ug abortion clinics bisan illegal siya but hoping nga naa ray manggawas sa search results. Ang ni gawas sa top results is usa ka birthing clinic with few reviews. Nag basa basa ra ko sa reviews until nabasahan nako ang comment about project486 regarding abortion.

I immediately contacted them via email using my icloud email. For some reason, i cannot view their reply to my email. Kada adlaw ko mag sigeg refresh sa email app and sigeg tan aw sa spam or junk folder, wala gyud so I decided to look for another supplier in fb kay i wanted to move on asap.

So nakapalit dayun ko ug pills from cebu seller from fb page na “Cebu abortion clinic”. Male nurse daw siya. Over the phone ra mi nag talk for screening kunuhay. But sa chat pa lang daan is I can sense na di siya legit. Basta desperate ta, mawa na jud atong correct sense of judgement. Duha d.i ila ge offer, pills and surgey. Na convince ra sad ko ato na time since pina ana pa siya nga daghan daw kaayu siyag patient for surgey that day nga nag inquire ko, like 15 daw kabuok naka line up. Niya sa pills is mga 50 ka taw iya i meet up sad during sa among meet up date. I opted d.i for pills na tag 8k.

Wala ra gyud ni effect. So ni suggest ang nurse na surgical daw need nako kay basin tight daw kaayu akong cervix. Akoa ra daw iya patient nga ingon ani. Lol. But ako na desperate jud kaayu, nagpa schedule sad ug surgery. Original price is 40k pero 30k na lang daw kay ang pill wala man ni effect sa akoa.

But wala jud ko nahimotang kay murag something is not right jud. Murag scammer jud siya. So naka huna huna kog open balik sa email and sa search box nako ge dritso ug search ang email address sa project486. And to my surprise, naa ra jud d.i silay reply sa akong email. I advise to use gmail guys, avoid apple mail or icloud.

So mao to, scammer jud akong napalitan kay naa pud same nako ug experience diri as per doc john. Rapist pud sad daw to, maayu na lang jud wala ko ni dayun sa surgery. Kuyaw kaayu. Dili pataka ug palit intawn.

Regarding sa akong experience, smooth ra jud tanan. First and 2nd day kay wala ra koy na feel. Pag third day is nahadlok ko kay based sa akong nabasa online, sakit jud daw once mag start na ang cramping. Sa akoa is ma feel jud nako ang cramps like murag naay na disintegrate inside sa akong tummy but wala ra jud ko ka feel ug sakit. Tungod siguro sa pain reliever. Basta follow lang jud ang instructions ni sir john. I think murag mao jud to ang reason nganung smooth ra kaayu. Ang POC is ni gawas siya on the 4th day na, around 11am. Abi nako mag poop ko but pag sit nako sa toilet is na feel nako nga murag lahi ang mu gawas. True enough, ni gawas dako kaayu na blood clot and then ang POC.

 

 

 

Advised lang jud nako to relax lang jud sa 3rd day especially if wala pa ni gawas. Sa 4th day is relax ra jud ko, even household chores is wala ko nag buhat. Mao to smooth ra gyud tanan. My bleeding is like a regular period ra pud.

All is well now. Thank you Dr. John and Sir Alex. From start to finish, you did not abandon me. My family is forever grateful to you. Please continue to help more women and families in the Philippines.

To all ladies out there, do not hesitate to contact project486. I am so glad nga naa tay option diri sa ph. Hopefully, daghan pa makahibaw nila.