Abortion in Laguna: Boyfriend is unaware that I have confirmed pregnancy and took meds to terminate it (entry #61)

February 12, 2018

Tessa, 26,
Santa Rosa, Laguna, Philippines

Its been a day since i did the procedure. I’m feeling fine, relieved and at peace. Im 26y/o and i feel like my life is just getting started and having a baby is not really in my plan for the next 3 years but it happened so i had to do what has to be done. My boyfriend just came back from abroad two months ago. We haven’t seen each other for two years so we got really excited to each other to the point of giving myself to him without using any contraceptive. I was 4 days late from my expected menstruation when i did the test. Faint positive. I cried a lot but my boyfriend is actually really happy about it and told his mom even if i told him for us to wait for another week to test again. Just to be sure, i told him.

I spent that night searching on how can i induce menstraution or miscarriage. Read this blog about herbal method, with vit c and other supplement.I secretly did the routine for 1 week. Took the test again and result is still positive so i proceed with my plan B. I emailed project486 and they replied immediately. Talked to sir john that night for 30mins and made payment the day after tomorrow. All this was hidden from my boyfriend because i know that he wouldn’t understand and would go against it or worst he would leave me if i told him everything. He actually bought 2 pt that day so i can try them and he can talk to my parents about the situation but i just kept him hanging. Telling him i will do it the next day. But not really. Blah blah

The meds arrived on the exact day that i plan to do it. I did everything sir alex and sir john instructed me. Bought everything that is necessary to the procedure. Only ate the foods on their list. Fasted on the right hour.

Then came the 3rd day (crucial day). Severe cramps and back pain for hours and very uncomfortable position. Im feeling worried that point because i dont feel anything coming out from my v at all. After 8hrs, i stood up and i felt a lot of blood came out so i immediately went to the comfort room to check my diaper. I started washing every blood clot, took pictures and send it to sir alex. Waited for hours for their confirmation but sir john instructed me to take the last two miso tablets to make sure. So i did it. 4th day. After careful evaluation sir john finally confirmed that im officially not pregnant. I was so relieved. Pain was worth it. I also told my boyfriend that my period came. I can see how sad and disappointed he was. I hugged him and said that we will have it when the time is right.

To project468, thank you so much. Your team is a huge help to all those women like me. To sir alex and mostly to sir john for being with me throughout the procedure, thank you so much. Promise to be really careful next time.


A Patient’s Reflection on her Medical Abortion (pills used: Mifepristone and Misoprostol / Cytotec) in the Philippines (entry #61)

12 comments on “Abortion in Laguna: Boyfriend is unaware that I have confirmed pregnancy and took meds to terminate it (entry #61)

  1. January 23,2023
    -Ri

    I have 2 children and Im a single mom not ready for another baby yet.
    After Christmas, I still did not have my period so I bought PT and it was negative. January 21 this year I learned that Im pregnant ofcourse by trying another pregnancy test. Im worried and search for help, fortunately I noticed project486 on the internet. I was hesitant because a lot of scammers out there and Ive read the reflections/ comments online about them. After that, I was given the sched to talk to one of their consultants. He explained and provided all the important informations I need to know before the transaction.They gave me their word and I hope everything will be fine.

  2. I’m currently at 7 weeks of pregnancy and not yet prepared to have another baby. I’m a single mom of a 5 year old daughter and right now it is hard for me to bear another child because I am hands on to my daughter who has just started schooling. This made me look for options in the internet to end the pregnancy. One day i stumbled upon a women’s forum recommending project486 since they helped her. I emailed them immediately, they responded and referred me to their consultant. I am done with the consultation with Dr. JJ patiently explained the process. I hope everything will went well for me like the ones I read from this website.

  3. I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant and I’m not financially prepared. Luckily, they responded right away and spoke with Dr JJ. He explained all the details to me. hopefully, everything will go well.

  4. I’m a mom of a 3 years old and believe it or not being a mom to her makes me happy but I don’t think I’d like another baby again any time soon. I’m still young my body is not yet ready for the another lifeform, I’m not financially prepared. We barely make survived. I’m still a student.

    I’m in my 8 weeks now, my partner and I decided to do the procedure. I’m very grateful for sir Alex and sir John, they provide all the information I need and the right medicines. I give my 100% trust on their team.

  5. I’m 3weeks pregnant and i know for a fact that i am not ready to have this baby yet. I am not ready financially and even my maturity is not up to being a mother just yet. Luckily, Project 486 is there to help me to have that chance to turn my life around.

  6. I don’t plan to have kids but I am now 6 weeks pregnant. I’m grateful that Project 486 exists as they are helpful in making this whole process bearable and informative for my partner and I.

  7. Im 6 weeks pregnant, and i am a mother of 4, we can’t afford to have another child, fortunately there is project 486 to help people like me. I just called them and they answered me immediately and helped me.

  8. I’m almost 2months pregnant and I know for myself that I am not yet ready to be a mother. I’m lucky enough to have friends that knows project 486 to help me. They educated me and eased me from thinking I am alone.

  9. 24 years old and almost 1month pregnant but I know for a fact that I can’t be a mother yet. I don’t have enough money, patience and energy to raise a child. I’ve heard about this site from an old college friend and now I can’t believe I’m experiencing the same situation he had back then.

  10. I’m currently 3months pregnant , my pregnancy wasn’t planned and also i have two kid of mine to take care so i decided na wag na muna itulog si baby

  11. I am 2months pregnant, this pregnancy wasnt planned and i have more things to do work and improves my financial. i just have an appointment to get my passport cos i plan to apply in japan. And then last last month my period was delayed im thinking that its just delay due to being stress a few months, but its almost 1mnth and 2weeks i still nott having a period so i decide to use a pt but its negative. so again i think about having a pcos so i search how to have a period. I read some medicine for it so i try some of then like serpentina capsule, coffee black, pineapple in can, ibuprofen and also ginger na nilaga. But it dosnt effect i dont having a period yet kaya nag taka nako. So i use pt again for the second time and i was shock that it was positive. I dont know what to do because i know that i drink everything that the baby will caused to die or having defect on brain or some parts of the body. thats my second reason why i cant allowed to be pregnant again but first iam not also ready about pregnancy i have a 2 kids and im a singlemom. I tell it to my boyfriend but he didnt allow me to remove it gusto nyang ituloy at tanggapin kung ano man ang maging resulta but i cant. I think that everyday i see my baby palagi kong sisisihin ang sarili ko kung meron mang deffect at ayun ang hindi ko kaya at isa pa were not yet ready financial and all people around us didnt agree to our relationship. We having so much problem and this is not the right time to having a babay pinag isipan ko tong mabuti but lagi kolang naiisip is hindi pa kaya, hindi pa pwede at ang dami ko ng nainom na bawal. so idecided it completely even if he dont want, i will do it tand he didnt know about this. I search how to abort and found this link. Iknow some women want to have a babyy but we all know that everything happend ay may dahilan. i know that all of you have your own decision and no matter what is they will understand us.

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