Abortion pills in Iloilo: I am grateful to my bf for sticking by my side all throughout (entry # 154)

Abortion Pills in Iloilo


I’m having mixed emotions right now while sharing my story and the journey of having an abortion. It was not an easy decision for me and my boyfriend, although we know that it is the only solution. When I found out that I was pregnant, I didn’t know what to do because I only thought that my period was delayed and never imagined that I would be carrying a child. There are nights that I am crying alone without my boyfriend knowing because I don’t know if I will keep this pregnancy or if I will abort the baby because I’m thinking of our future and we know that it is not yet the right time.


However, I chose to terminate this pregnancy because I’m not only thinking of myself but also my boyfriend’s future. We still have dreams to achieve, and I am still studying in college. I am worried because I’m already 7 weeks pregnant, and we decided to find a way to abort this baby.


Luckily, my boyfriend found an article about Project 486, and he sent me the story of one of the patient, so I read all the articles, and I felt relieved because there is still hope and there is someone who can help us. Therefore, we messaged Sir Alex, and he scheduled us for a consultation with Sir John. I was hesitant at first because I was afraid that we would get scammed, but when we started the consultation, all my hesitations were gone because of the guidance and advices of Sir John.



Prior to starting the procedure, we bought and prepared all of the things we needed. Then, at 11:59 pm, I began taking the first mife, expecting to feel anything, but thankfully, I didn’t feel any side effects. Same with day 2, it was simply a normal day for me because I was able to continue with my routine. Then came day three, and I was well prepared for it. I took painkillers with Sir John’s permission before taking the first sets of miso. In the first several hours, I already felt the cramps, but it was still tolerable.

Not until 9 p.m., I could already feel that the cramps were getting worse, and there’s already a lot of blood coming out of me. My back already hurts because of the pillow maneuver position that I needed to maintain from 4 p.m. to 12 p.m., and I can’t even move. I’m grateful to my boyfriend for sticking by my side throughout the procedure, and I saw the worry on his face because of my situation.


Until 11 p.m., and I can’t take the pain anymore. I’m crying and trying to stay strong. I wanted to finish this as soon as possible because I had run out of energy. My boyfriend was simply holding my hand and cheering me up. It seemed like the worst day of my life, and I don’t want to be in that situation again. I felt like I was in labor because I was in so much pain. It’s 1:30am that the POC successfully came out of me, and I’m sad seeing my little baby that way, but I also felt relieved because it was successful and I don’t have to worry every day.


Lastly, this really helped us out as couple. We really can’t put into words the gratitude that we feel with project 486 with all the guidance they provided.

This had helped us a lot especially realising things.

To our little bundle of joy, you were the best thing that actually happened to us. Forgive us if we had to meet you this way. We will be forever grateful.

2 comments on “Abortion pills in Iloilo: I am grateful to my bf for sticking by my side all throughout (entry # 154)

  1. I wanted to ask if who can I talk regarding the process for abortion. Badly needed help as soon as possible.

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