Abortion Pills CDO: Patient from Cagayan de Oro recounts experience (entry# 239)

It’s been 2 weeks and everything is still fresh. Ang daming nangyari this last week of November to 2nd week of December hindi ko alam paano ko kinaya lahat. But I’m gonna share to you my story. Last November 2025, I noticed delayed yung period ko. Lumipas yung 1 week hindi parin ako dinatnan pero hindi ako masyado na alarm kasi inisip ko baka after 1 week rereglahin na ako. Lumipas yung 2 weeks hindi pa rin ako dinatnan and that’s the time nag worried na ako. I prayed to God na sana hindi ako buntis kasi hindi pa ako ready. I don’t feel any symptoms except for breast tenderness and mild cramps which is present din siya for PMS. I told my partner about it pero hindi niya inisip na buntis ako baka ngchange lang yung mens cycle ko. So to confirm it and bigyan ako ng peace of mind I bought PT, isa lang yung binili ko that time. I took the PT test early morning on the Sunday after my 2weeks delayed and boom the result is “positive”. I was shocked I even rubbed my eyes kasi baka namalik mata lang ako pero kahit ibalintong ko yung result positive talaga. I was really worried and I don’t know what to do. I’m on legal age but I’m not yet ready for this financially, mentally, emotionally and physically. I can’t a raise a child. My family still rely on me. Mataas yung expectation nila sa akin. I showed the result to my partner and both of us are not yet ready for this. We both agreed to terminate the pregnancy. But it’s not an easy decision. It’s a roller coaster of emotions. Yung takot nandon knowing na “illegal” siya dito sa atin. And I feel pity about my baby. I was scared and worried at the same time. On that day I tried to search about “abortion pill” may lumalabas pero sa ibang country. Medyo nahiripan talaga ako such until napunta ako sa website ng “Project486” at first I thought it was scammed. But then nung binasa ko yung mga stories at confession ng mga patient nila, naliwanagan ako and it gives me hope. Nabigyan ako ng pag-asa na baka may tutulong sa situation ko. After reading their stories I immediately message and email Sir Alex. Afternoon on that day, nagreply na si Sir Alex. Ngsend siya 4 types of email which compose: the introduction of abortion pill, reminders on buying the medicine and there are following information that you need to provide and this includes your PT result. Hindi ako nkapag reply agad. Lumipas pa yung isang araw after ako mkapag reply kay Sir Alex but he is responsive. After he received my reply, finorward na niya ako kay Sir John. Imessage ko daw siya sa Whatsapp at magpakilala ako with my “patientcode” ang nagreply siya agad after 1 minute. He will send you a set of questions and you have to answer it in all honesty. After that he will send a tons of message and kailangan mu basahin at intindihin lahat. Sir John will explained everything about the procedure and the pills. He will educate you and makikita mu yung authenticity niya to help. He always remind you about the fake pills kasi madami ang mga na scammed na nagbebenta ng fake pills. Buti nlang talaga natagpuan ko ang “project486”. Naging kalmado ako at mas na iintidihan ko yung procedure. Napaka in order lahat ng procedure and the timetable kung when mu iintake yung med and ano mga dapat mung gawin before, during and after the procedure. After ko nabasa at naintindihan lahat, I talked to my parther and we decided to go through it. And they were kind enough to give us a big discount.

While waiting on the package, I decided na magpa ultrasound since we have healthcare sa company. I just want to know how many weeks na akong preggy. I remain calm during the ultrasound but yung worry ko nandun pa din. I was 7weeks pregnant na pala. I loved my baby but I’m sorry, mama is not yet ready. I promise to be extra careful next time. I also prepared all the things that is needed for the procedure. Buo na talaga yung decision ko.

Na received ko yung package on a Tuesday. And Sir John ask when will be my 1st day. I started my 1st day on the Friday, timing Christmas Party namin yun but I have to follow the timetable especially yung fasting. Yung na take ko na yung Mife#1 wala nman ako masyadong na feel. Natulog lang ako and I make sure not to vomit kasi sayang yung med. On Day 2, nagagawa ko pa yung mga regular chores ko but I feel tired so I decided to sleep, lumabas lang ako to buy bonamine and other meds na need. Then by 3pm I took the Mife#2 with water. Medyo nanghina ako kasi ngstart yung fasting by 12nn to 6pm. I’m hungry but I can’t eat so I just sleep and waited until 6pm to eat light meal. Then the Day 3 came, I feel a bit nervous kasi ito yung pinakamataas na procedure. Morning nagawa ko pa yung mga normal na gawain then by noon natulog muna ako. I was with my partner on the 3rd day. Mga 3pm, nagprepare na ako na mga things na gagamitin for the procedure. I also instructed my partner para alam niya yung mga gagawin niya. Then by 4-4:30pm ngstart na yung vaginal intake I was nervous talaga nahirapan ako so I ask assistance with my partner. After the vaginal intake, I do the pillow manuever. Nka lay lang ako sa bed. The first 1 hour nka feel ako na may discharge ako and I informed Sir John and he said it is actually a good sign. By 7:30pm I took advil and bonamine with water. And by 8pm yung buccal and sublingual miso. Medyo hapdi yung buccal at sublingual miso pero keri lang nman. By 10pm dun ko na feel yung pananakit ng puson at balakang ko. Naiiyak ako sa sakit pero kailangan kung tiisin at kayanin para succesful yung procedure. At the same time nag worry din ako baka matagal siyang lumabas. But Sir John remind me to think of happy and sexy things for the oxytocin to release. I waited until 12am para makatayo ako, by that time I ask assistance for my partner to help me stand up kasi nangangalay na yung katawan ko. But I managed to stand up and walk patungo sa cr. Before ako makarating sa cr, na feel ko may lumabas medyo masakit siya so i shout a bit and I rush sa cr to check if that’s the POC na. And yes it’s the POC. I urinate in the arinola as instructed. I clean myself first. I removed it from the diaper and run it with water gently. I transfer it in a clean tissue and I send it to Sir John as instructed. It was my first time seeing a lot of blood. I feel anxious and exhausted. I waited for Sir John’s confirmation. After he said that I’m officially not pregnant. And the procedure was a success. I sighed very deep and I feel a bit of relief. I really thank Sir John and appreciate all his guidance and patience throughout the procedure.

And right now, I’m still recovering physically, emotionally and mentally. I feel emotional and sorry when I remember my baby. But when I think about my parents and the situation that I am in I knew that I made the right decision. To Sir John and team thank you so much for lending genuine help to all women who have the same situation as me. Thank you sir for being so detail and professional. For answering all the queries without judgement. To all women who have the same situation as me don’t be afriad to seek help. You have a choice. If you choose to terminate your pregnancy “Project486” will really help you in the best way they can. They are very accomodating and responsive. I hope that madami pa kayong matutulungan na mga kababaihan na katulad ko who seek genuine help. Maraming salamat po.

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