Hello, everyone! This is my second time here. I had the procedure last July 17-19. I was in emotional pain for months that I had to be in therapy. Now, I finally have the courage to talk about it. This time, napugos gyud ko ug pakuha. After testing positive, the first thing my partner said was, “ipakuha na”. Nag away2x mi sige. Naabot sa point nga gi palo niya akong kamot while buntis ko kay nag lalis mi. I was thankful sad or else i would have been trapped in an abusive relationship.

Supportive siya financially. Wa siya nag kuwang sa akong needs but di lang jud nako kaya iyang batasan. Nga mura ba ug siyay nag buntis. Also, i had severe vomiting and food aversions pud nga halos di na gyud nako kaya mo kaon man lang o mo barog. I also found out nga nag book diay siya ug walker prior sa time nga nabuntis ko. I was disgusted.

Gihugawan ko sa akong kaugalingon ug apil. Maka ingon nalang ko nga mas maayo nga di siya mag dako nga naay ing-ani nga klase sa amahan. Bisag sakit para nako, I know di nako kayang makita akoang anak puhon nga mag antos sa kinabuhi mga way amahan, and if naa man gani- abusive sad. Honestly, last year when i also had the procedure diri, I was so sure nga i-keep na nako ang sunod. My reason back then was because we were both not ready- mentally, financially, and emotionally. This time, although ready na financially, mas na burden na noon ko emotionally. I guess tinuod gyud nga money changes a man. Support him while naa siya’s kalisod and watch how he will act all high and mighty ug naa na siya sa kahayay. Ladies, make smart choices moving forward. Di sa tanang panahon importante ang gugma. Respect matters above all. A person can claim he loves you and still fails to show it kay wala siyay saktong respeto nimo. I learned this the hard way- even at the expense of my own baby.