Abortion in Cagayan de Oro
Hello, Its been 2 weeks since I haven’t posted anything yet regarding the
procedure. Honestly, the past week has been the most stressful week I had
after I did the procedure kasi i was one of the 2022 takers sa NLE. The
anxiety & worries I had di ko ma take and hindi ko talaga na handle well
yung sarili ko kaya I promised myself to do & write down my experience
after magiging okay na ako, im sorry po sir John & sir Alex kasi late po
ako nag submit.
click here for video: patient proves she’s from CDO
I need to give back to my parents
Before I knew I was pregnant I was having my review for the NLE, at that
time it was the week for final coaching na and almost 2 weeks nlng iintayin
para mag take ng board exam. 4 weeks before, i felt something different sa
body ko but I just didnt mind it kasi i was so stress and naging busy
talaga ako for the preparation ng exam, dun ko napansin na it was past na
pala sa aking expected date ng menstruation ko pero hindi ako talaga
nagthink na magpt kasi baka dahil lng sa stress kaya ako naging late.
As time goes by, mas tumataas yung worry ko kasi papalapit ng papalapit na ang
board exam at the same time hindi parin ako nireregla kaya nilakasan ko ang
loob ko mag PT, i did it on Nov. 1st and there i found out na pregnant pala
ako, i was shaking when I saw the lines, hindi ako makagalaw i was thinking
of whats gonna happen kasi magboboard exam palang ako & i really need to
give back pa para sa mama and papa ko who was really working hard away from
us para mabigay lng lahat ng needs namin,
So after that day I immediately
called my partner and said about the result, he said na he wants it but he
would really sacrifice his studies para matulungan ako, but he also said na
gusto din nyang makapagtapos lalo nat he was expected na ng family nya to
be the one na maghehelp sa kanilanh maka-ahon. Ako rin, mahirap saakin
dahil I came from a strict family and lahat sla hindi alam na meron akong
boyfriend dahil ayaw talaga ni papa, kaya ayaw ko rin madisappoint yung
papa ko sakin at si mama lalo nat kakagraduate lng at magtatake pa ng
boards.
I need to do it before the board exam
We decided to do it prior sa board exam pero para saakin parang
mahirap kasi tumataas na yung stress ko and worries tapos magtatake pa ako
ng boards kaya we decided to do it after also isa rin sa reason is that
since my baby was already with me that time i want him/her to be with me
althroughout sa pagtake ko ng exam.
Honestly it was really hard kasi as a student nag aantay lng ako ng
allowance from my parents and my partner also, kaya im very thankful kay
sir John for giving me enough discount para maka avail sa pagbili ng meds.
We decided na to do the procedures and honestly I was really scared, but
thankful ako kasi sir John was there. All throughout sa 3 days na procedure
he was a one call away, the first and 2nd day was okay but sa 3rd day medyo
mahirap talaga, i felt so uncomfortable and in so much pain but again sir
john was there sa phone, and guided me on what to do. I felt at ease kasi
alam kong meron akong madaling matawagan lalo nat napakahirap ng ginagawa
ko at that time.
It was hard but It’ll be harder if I bring it to term
After the 8 hour procedure sa 3rd day na hindi tumayo,
I took my diapers and nakita ko agad ang flesh, a white-ish flesh and I knew
sya yun. Nawala lahat physically but deep inside me masakit, kasi alam kong
siya yun and hindi ako makaiyak parang nagloloading yung utak ko. After an
hour, dun ko na narealize at nabuhos lahat ng luha. Masakit kasi i really
wanted it gusto ko sya but kung titingnan yung situation, it isnt the right
time.
I told myself na if ever magkaka anak ako, i would give him the best
life but sa kanya it would be too unfair, unfair kasi hindi ko yun
mabibigay. All this dreams i had is not enough to give him/her the best
life, hindi ko pa kaya hindi pa namin kaya. The world is chaotic enough
para iparanas sa kanya. I know i was cruel but bringing a life into this
dark world is also unfair for my baby. I cannot afford to see myself na di
mabigyan ng magandang buhay yung anak ko. Everything was so painful, but I
know na everything has a reason. Naging eye opener talaga to sa akin to do
better and no matter what o ano mang mangyayari hindi ko siya kakalimutan
because I know he/she was my guardian angel lalo na sa pgtake ng aking
exam.
I promise to do better
Last week, the results were out and yes i did it pumasa ako and
starting po sa aking new journey i would dedicate and pour out everything
for him/her and i would also do better para pag isipan lahat ng decisions
ko in life. Sa lahat ng mga girls na nakakaranas neto, i know how hard it
was para makapagdecide lalo na sa bagay nato and were too strong para
mapagdaanan lahat yun, simula palang sa pagdecide na gawin yun, talagang
naging strong na tayo. May choice tayo and we know na para saatin its the
right and the best choice lalo na’t alam nating hindi talaga madali, hindi
pa tayo ready and hindi pa sapat yung kakayanan natin para sa ganitong
bagay.
Thank you po talaga sa lahat sir John & sir Alex. I cant thank you enough
sa lahat ng tulong nyo saakin.
— Beth
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It was my first time to make a decision like so i really dont know what to write, im a mother of 3 but im a single mom too, it feels like if im going to go with im gonna lost my career and the trust of my babies, at parang babalik nanaman aku sa zero na aasa nalang sa ibibigay ng papa nila, though it was really his obligation but i dont wanna be the talk of some people na baka sabihin nila im a bad mom, kasi nka-hanap na agad aku ng iba. Yung parang feeling mu your alone na wala kang masabihan, but you need to stay strong for your 3child. And once i contact project 486 and make a conversation with their agent, yung worries ku medyu gumaan, so thank you for listening for my ka dramahan in life, yun lang po 🙏😊
Me and my partner are both students and we’re both incapable to raise a child at the mean time so we both decided to have an abortion since it’s the most logical option we thought off. The stress and anxiety of looking for an abortion option in this country is stressful since the government has deemed it illegal and when I was about to give up my partner found project486. Project 486 is legit, they are unbiased, helpful and easy to talk to without the concern of being judge. They give advices and guidance to whoever needs them.
When I discovered that I am pregnant, I was really scared because it’s really not according to plan. Many will be affected by such circumstance. Hence, together with my partner, we decided to choose this option. We were really thankful to project 486 for being so responsive by the time we made contact with them. Truly, we afe grateful to them .